- Lack of Communication – Avoids discussing problems or refuses to express emotions.
- Excessive Jealousy – Gets possessive, questions your every move, or doesn’t trust you without reason.
- Manipulative Behavior – Uses guilt, gaslighting, or emotional blackmail to control situations.
- Constant Criticism – Always finds faults in you but doesn’t accept feedback herself.
- Frequent Mood Swings – Unpredictable emotional highs and lows without clear reasons.
Trust & Honesty
- Dishonesty – Lies often, even about small things.
- Secretive Behavior – Hides aspects of her life, refuses to introduce you to friends/family.
- Flirting with Others – Disrespects relationship boundaries and entertains attention from others.
- History of Cheating – If she’s done it before, she might do it again.
Emotional & Mental Stability
- Plays the Victim Constantly – Always blames others for her problems, never takes accountability.
- Clings Too Fast – Wants to move in, get engaged, or make major life changes too soon.
- Insecurity & Low Self-Esteem – Needs constant validation, compares herself to others frequently.
Lifestyle & Priorities
- Financial Irresponsibility – Spends recklessly, never saves, or expects you to cover her expenses.
- Addictions – Uncontrolled substance abuse, gambling, or other destructive habits.
- Bad Relationship with Family & Friends – No close friendships or always fighting with family.
- Disrespectful to Others – Rude to waiters, talks down to people, or lacks empathy.
Relationship Dynamics
- Doesn’t Support Your Goals – Dismisses your ambitions or belittles your dreams.
- Doesn’t Respect Your Boundaries – Pressures you into things you’re uncomfortable with.
- Holds Grudges & Brings Up the Past – Uses past mistakes as ammunition in fights.
- Avoids Conflict Resolution – Either shuts down or explodes instead of working through issues.
If you notice several of these red flags, it might be worth reconsidering the relationship. 🚩